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Your Attitude is your Window to the world

                                                             - Jeff Keller

Often we have heard "What we think we become! ", maybe in serials, movies and in many motivational seminars. But we often forget that what all we think comes from the way we see the world you might not be able to understand that so let me take an example:

There are two friends one Jack another Jones assuming both are having same life lets assume jack have a positive attitude towards life daily wakes up with a smiling face thank nature for the life he is living and then starts his day, he generally wishes Morning to everyone at his workplace and keeps a big smile no matter whatever the circumstances he faced in his whole day. On the other hand, Jones is a deadpan he at no time be happy while waking up and usually never wishes anyone at his workplace and thus creating a sense of negativity in his mind.

According to a survey by Harvard Business Review 

"We found that CSRs varied from day to day in their start-of-day mood, but that those who started out each day happy or calm usually stayed that way throughout the day, and interacting with customers tended to further enhance their mood. By contrast, for the most part, people who started the day in a terrible mood didn’t really climb out of it and felt even worse by the end of the day — even after interacting with positive customers. Most importantly, we discovered strong performance effects when it came to the quality of work and productivity. Employees who were in a positive mood provided higher-quality service: they were more articulate on the phone with fewer “ums” and verbal tics and used more proper grammar. Employees who were in a negative mood tended to take more frequent breaks from their duties to cope with the stress and get themselves through the day. These small breaks piled up, leading to a greater than 10% loss of productivity."

And this is not the end, on reading a few world-renowned authors like Jeff Keller, Napolean Hill, Dale Carnegie I have noticed a common theme in all these great books is that they all tell you "Don't seek approvals" which can be interpreted as Never hear to people on what u should wear, how u should act, etc.

JUST REMOVE THEM FROM YOUR LIFE

Yes, today it might sound weird but one day when it will be too late you will start believing it was all your fault and you were not able to handle the situation so all went wrong this kind of people who just makes you feel small are so-called Deactivators they will just make you feel small and how worthless you are. They will just mangle your Self-confidence. 

I know you might be thinking that this author is a "Negative person". He is just overhanging with his thoughts and baffling whatever he has read! If that's the case I am convincing you to play this small game I usually finger it as " Mindtrip Radar ".

Before starting our game I want you to ask yourself a question and rate yourself on a scale of 1-10 on the following basis 

• Self-confidence
• Relationships
• Spirituality ( here it means how well you know yourself , so don't take it literally😅)

Now once you have rated yourself, and if your average of three comes to less than 7 you might be a negative person  ( No offense😬 one as one might be shy and scoreless in the self-confidence section and others might not good at relationships but quite confident ).
So what next you are going to do is try to connect with the negative people for 10 days and then connect with positive people for another 10 days you might again think "what a crap!" .But trust me and play this small game note your ratings as Initial, Postive and Negative. Once after 20 days you can again visit my blog and tell us in the comments How drastically your life changed in the next 20 days.

P.S. By connecting with people I mean to spend more time with either go to watch a soccer match, Bowling Alley, etc, but spend as much time as you can with them.

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