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Scan your colloquy!!

Colloquy alias Conversation!
Anyone would think about why to watch our conversation? Ok ok don't take it so literally I am just asking you to keep an eye on what you speak and how to present your ideas in a group or in a one-to-one conversation. Cause the way you present your words makes a lot of impact in your career or personal life. In this blog, I am going to share a story of mine and show you guys How changing the words you use can change your Mind!
In the last blog(Lap of luxury commence through mind ). I told you about the positive attitude one must keep for their luminous forthcoming life and if you haven't read my Blog do give a visit from the link above.  So, How can we transform ourselves into a positive Beast? So here is the answer " Use Positive vocabulary ".



In this world people can be broadly classified into three genres:

  1. Pessimists
  2. Mediocre
  3. Optimists
And the world's top 1 percent are Optimists, another 15-20% Mediocre, 30% Pessimists and others left are chameleons They just can't think in a single direction. When things go right for them they are Optimists when things don't get according to their plan they are the most negative person you can ever meet!

                                                   

Then, How can one become so-called an "OPTIMIST"?
So there are a few sets of a word one can use while conversing with someone.

  • Terrific!
  • Fantastic!
  • Great!
  • Excellent!
  • Super!
  • It doesn't get any better!
  • Mind-Boggling!
  • Breathtaking!
  • Wondrous!

So in my high school days, I was the most Pessimistic guy you can ever meet always using words that were not pleasing like when someone asked me "Hey How is your day going?" I replied without any pause "That was such a horrible day today!".So I just started absorbing all the negative in my surroundings and never felt good (though it never affected me academically). But now I have stopped using the words which my mind doesn't want to hear. And yes it has changed me as an individual a lot.

Self-pitty is an Acid that eats holes in happiness!
                                                                           - Earl Nightingale
Never ever complain to anyone like " I am not feeling well!", " I have a terrible sinus headache!" , "I had this green stuff oozing out of me ......" etc. Cause no one wants to hear your sufferings. If you want people to hear you and want to influence your coworkers or friends. I would suggest never use negative words cause
"Ninety percent of the people you meet don't care about your troubles. The other 10 percent are glad you have them." 
And I am quoting these amazing lines from Attitude is EVERYTHING "The people who don't complain very much are a joy to be around. Decide to join that group -so people won't have to cross the street when they see you coming".

Thanks 
-Nirmit Dave

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